|Me on the climb up Salisbury Crags in Edinburgh. |
Basking in the beautiful sunshine.
1. I was on the metro one day and it was standing room only. I was a bit annoyed not to get a seat because I like to sit and read, especially in the seats at the end of the car. I was just getting over my wee bitterness when an elderly Chinese man hobbled onto the car. A young guy immediately got out of his seat and offered it to the man, however, the old man kept peering out the subway car doors which were still open, not paying any attention to the empty seat. Then we all saw why. An elderly Chinese woman, hunched over and limping, slowly made her way into the car and the old man reached for her when she came through the doors. Immediately someone else gave up their seat and now there were two empty places for the old couple to sit. However, their joy at having made the trek into the metro car together made them oblivious to the waiting seats. And it captured the attention of a good many of us in the car as well. After a moment, they became aware of the offered seats and I watched them navigate their way to the blue bench, the man making sure that the woman was safely settled before he let himself sink down into his own seat. I clearly remember the smile on the old man's face when he saw his wife enter the metro car, their grasping for each other in that moment, both a bit tottery. It was one of the most beautiful things I have witnessed in a long time. After they sat down, I kept watching them and soon had a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. I can't even tell you why. Maybe it was their utter dependence on each other. Maybe it was their excitement at managing something simple yet challenging. Maybe it was the way they interacted with each other. Maybe it was the difference between what I was seeing and our culture's emphasis on self-confidence, individualization and independence. I don't know, but I really didn't care about getting a seat or reading after that.
2. Once every two weeks I attend a bible study/prayer group. I was really tired this week and considered not going, but I went because I knew it was probably the best thing I could do after a trying week, and I knew I would come away refreshed. I always do. Sometimes we do a lot of discussing and reading, but over half of this week's meeting was spent in prayer, first silently and then with words. It invoked a very peaceful atmosphere, a place of rest and invitation, a place where the Spirit was welcome and present. Near the end of the evening, we were directed to pray for a particular person in the group. I had no words, so I just went to sit beside her, close up, touching. And it became a special prayer of getting beyond alone-ness for both of us. I hadn't realized how much of my life I do alone and how solitary that sometimes gets. It was a moment of being present to God and to each other. We all need that. That beautiful moment was better than a good night's sleep or a night off.
3. For those of you who remember my last post, I described a meeting with someone who was to write part of my funding application and that meeting didn't go as well as I hoped it would. Well, I received word last week that my supervisor had also initiated a conversation with this person and they responded very favourably, saying this sort of interaction (which myself and my supervisor were doing with them) was exactly what they wanted others in the program to do. The person in question is new to the position and there is no doubt that it is a very challenging one. There are many different students, each with an individualized program of study, and the diversity and size of the group, combined with this person being mostly in an administrative role and not a pedagogical one (meaning we don't encounter them in any teaching situations) makes it extra difficult for them to engage with us. It was like a drink of fresh, cool water to hear that our efforts at interaction were helpful.
4. Dean got new glasses this week and he looks absolutely brilliant, handsome, and beautiful. I would marry him all over again if he asked. Even if he didn't ask, I would marry him. He's that pretty. And smart. And generous. And good looking. Like I have said before, everyone needs a Dean in their life.